PARENTAL MONITORING AND RELIGIOUS OPERATIONS ON SEXUAL ABSTINENCE

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CHAPTER ONE INTRODUCTION

1.1       BACKGROUND TO THE STUDY

The insertion and pushing of a male’s penis, generally when erect, into a female’s vagina for the goal of sexual pleasure or reproduction is known as sexual intercourse, coitus, or copulation; sometimes known as vaginal intercourse or vaginal sex (Kar, 2010). Penetration of the anus by the penis (anal sex), penetration of the mouth by the penis or oral penetration of the vulva or vagina (oral sex), sexual penetration by the fingers (fingering), and penetration by use of a strap-on dildo are all examples of penetrative sexual intercourse (Steinberg, 2004). These activities entail physical intimacy between two or more people and are typically performed primarily for physical or emotional enjoyment among humans, and they frequently contribute to human bonding (Fedwa, 2007). There are many different perspectives on what constitutes sexual intercourse or other sexual activities (Douglas & Nancy, 2008), which might influence attitudes toward sexual health (O’leary, 2002). The term sex, which is frequently used as a shorthand for sexual intercourse, can refer to any type of sexual activity (Randall & Byers, 2003). Because people can contract sexually transmitted infections while engaging in these activities (Randall, 2007), even though the risk of transmission is significantly reduced during non-penetrative sex (Nilamadhab, 2005), safe sex practice is advised (Dianne, 2008). Various jurisdictions have enacted restrictive laws against certain sexual acts, such as incest, sexual activity with minors, extramarital sex, prostitution, sodomy, rape, and zoophili Religious views also influence personal decisions about sexual intercourse and other sexual activities, such as virginity decisions (Ann, 2007), as well as legal and public policy issues. Though there are certain similar elements, such as the ban of adultery, religious perspectives on sexuality range substantially amongst religions and groups within the same religion. Copulation is the word for non-human animal reproductive sexual intercourse in which sperm is transferred into the female’s reproductive system by non-vaginal methods such as cloacal copulation. Mating and copulation occur during the moment of estrus (the most fertile phase in the female’s reproductive cycle) in most nonhuman animals, increasing the odds of successful impregnation (Jared, 2005). However, bonobos, dolphins, and chimps are known to engage in sexual intercourse regardless of whether the female is in estrus, and to engage in sex act with some sex partners (Weiner, 2010). Just as humans engage in sexual activity primarily for pleasure (Carpenter, 2005), this behavior in the aforementioned animals is also presumed to be for pleasure (Fawcett, 2008). (Laura, 2005). The rate of sexual engagement among young teenagers is rising. By the age of 15, 20% of males who turned 20 between 1970 and 1972 had had sexual intercourse, compared to 27% of those who aged 20 between 1985 and 1987. By the age of 15, 10% of girls turning 20 between 1985 and 1987 had begun sexual intercourse. Those who turned 20 between 1970 and 1972 accounted for 14% of the population (Mott, 1998). African Americans are more likely than whites to engage in sexual activity at a young age. By the age of 15, more than half of African American boys have had sexual intercourse. White and Hispanic guys do not reach comparable levels of sexual activity until they are 17 years old. By the age of 15, around 25% of African American females and 15% of Hispanic and white females had had sexual intercourse in 1992. (Marsigli, 1998). The incidence of pregnancy among girls aged 14 and under increased from 13.5 (per 1,000 females aged 14) in 1973 to 17.1 (per 1,000 females aged 14) in 1992. Each year, around 9% of sexually experienced girls aged 14 and younger become pregnant (Glei, 1995). In 1973, the abortion rate among all girls aged 14 and under was 5.6 (per 1,000 females aged 14) compared to 8.4 (per 1,000 females aged 14) in 1980 and 7.9 (per 1,000 females aged 14) in 1990. There were 12,901 births to teenagers under the age of 15 in 1994. (Morrison, 1992). Adolescent girls, in particular, may be more vulnerable to STDs than older women. Teenage females are less likely to be treated with antibiotics for STDs and may be at a higher risk of cervical infections (Moore, 1995). Teenagers under the age of 15 had a two-and-a-half times higher maternal mortality rate than moms aged 20 to 24. (Moore, Myers & Morrison, 1993). Kids born to teenagers under the age of 15 are more than twice as likely to be born weighing less than 2,500 grams (about 5.5 pounds) and are three times more likely to die during the first 28 days of life than babies born to older moms (Harlow, 1994). Because of the multiple risk factors connected with being young, such as insufficient prenatal care and nutrition, there is a link between early childbearing and poor health outcomes (Fine, 1992). The younger a woman is when she becomes pregnant, the less likely she is to get prenatal care throughout the first trimester (Miller, 1995). At the age of 27, 72 percent of African American adolescent moms who were less than 16 years old when they gave birth were still poor. 67 percent of Hispanic women and 32 percent of White women, respectively, live in poverty (Boyer & Fine, 1992). Sexual abstinence has been viewed as the only way to avoid various sexually transmitted diseases, and it has made significant efforts to educate school students, civil servants, private sector workers, and self-employed individuals about the benefits of avoiding sexual intercourse before marriage. Due to the discovery of the widespread killer illness known as Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome (AIDS), which has an onset of Human Immune Virus (HIV), sexual activities have been reduced to the bare minimum. Though some people continue to engage in commercial sexual activities, it is not as prevalent as it once was. In Uganda, the first cases of AIDS were discovered in the early 1990s (Kagimu, 1996). The pandemic has grown since then, with an estimated 15–20 million Ugandans HIV-positive out of a total population of 18 million (STD/ACP Programme, 1995). Several studies on sexual abstinence have been conducted across the world, and a variety of factors have been employed to quantify sexual abstinence. In-laws, literacy level, peer influence, and a variety of other factors are among them, but all of them need that additional variables be used to evaluate sexual absence. A study of the features of teenage sexual behavior identified disparities by gender and socioeconomic class, with men becoming sexually active at younger ages than girls. Some studies looked at the impact of schooling on adolescent sexual behavior and found that teens who are still in school are more likely to exercise autonomy when it comes to determining whether or not to participate in sexual relationships. The family’s role as a socializing agent has also been investigated (Nord, 2000). Meeker discovered that, as a result of modernization and westernization, community elders’ social influence over the fertility and sexuality of young females has weakened. According to the 2007 Nigeria Demographic and Health Survey, the median age of first sexual intercourse for girls is little over 16 years. By the ages of 18 and 20, 63 percent and 80 percent of people had had sexual intercourse, respectively (Moore, 2004). According to the second phase of the poll, half of the female respondents had sexual intercourse by the age of 18 and roughly a quarter had sex before the age of 15. The report’s most intriguing finding is that men are exposed to sexual intercourse later than women. Men have a median age of 20 when they have their first sexual encounter, whereas women have a median age of 18. While the HIV/AIDS epidemic has had a catastrophic influence on many aspects of life, one of the most significant barriers to prevention is societal stigma (Adeniyi, 2001). Stigma is described as a severely disparaging quality that associates a person with bad characteristics, lowering that person’s social position (Clifford, 2004). It has been suggested that stigmatized people have specific characteristics that communicate a social identity that is undervalued in a particular social setting. In stigma, one group views the other as aberrant and despises them. People distinguishing and labeling human differences; dominant groups linking labeled persons to undesirable characteristics; labeled persons are placed in distinct categories to achieve some degree of separation of ‘us’ from ‘them,’ and labeled persons experience status loss and discrimination that leads to unequal outcomes are some of its components (Dorothy, 2003). Self-stigma presents itself in avoidance, social distance, compulsion, and non-supportiveness, resulting in low or low self-esteem. Individuals and groups can be stigmatized, which can lead to biased beliefs, behaviors, and actions (Adelini, 2004). Promiscuity was frowned upon in the ancient world for both health and social grounds (Joseph, 2003). According to Pythagoras (6th century BCE), sex should be conducted in the winter but not in the summer since the loss of sperm was risky, difficult to regulate, and both physically and spiritually draining, but had no impact on females (Robert, 2005). This concept may have been combined with the Zoroastrian concept of good and evil in Gnosticism, a doctrine that impacted Christian and Islamic views on sexual behavior (Emery, 2005). There have always been people who believe that sexual abstinence has several health benefits, especially prior to the twentieth century. Lack of abstinence was thought to cause a loss of vitality in males. In contemporary times, the argument has been rephrased in biological terms, saying that ejaculation causes a depletion of important nutrients like lecithin and phosphorus, which are also present at higher amounts in the brain. Walter Siegmeister, also known as Raymond and Bernard, an early 20th century American alternative health, esoteric writer, novelist, and mystic who was a part of the alternative reality subculture, asserted several advantages in favor of sexual abstinence. “It is clear that there is an important internal physiological relation between the secretion of the sex glands and the central nervous system, that the loss of these secretions, voluntarily or involuntarily, has a detrimental effect on the nutrition and vitality of the nerves and brain, while, on the other hand, the conservation of these secretions has a vitalizing effect,” he writes in his essay Science Discovers the Physiological Value of Continence (1957). Considering the above statement based on what is experienced among youths in the Nigeria setting, there are beliefs that refraining from sex causes scrotal pains, which has caused many youths to engage in sex, while others believe that having sex reduces one’s life longevity by twenty one days depending on the number of times he/she has sex, which is also preventing youths from having sexual intercourse, while some youths are not eve having sexual intercourse (Vee, 2003). The widely feared HIV/AIDS is another source of concern among young, since victims have been seen and the disease’s news is widely circulated; nonetheless, some youth are unable to refrain from having sex and utilize contraceptives/protectives such as condoms. As a result, parents, the government, non-governmental organizations, associations, and others have a lot to do when it comes to the issue of sexual abstinence among youngsters. According to 1st Thessalonians 4:2-4, “because this is the desire of God, your sanctification:

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